Hi Nicole,

I read about your problem with wondering on how to deal and it made me think of my own personal close to home issues that I've been dealing with.  Thankfully, this person lives so far away from you, ha!   Maybe limit the phone calls to once a day or every other day.  Four times a day seems a little extreme and could drive anyone crazy.   You don't have to agree with everything this person is doing or condone it but if its effecting you, get some distance from the phone calls.  There is nothing ungodly, unChristian like about that.  I may not be older than you (31) but with similar situations of how to deal with people well I just thought I could pass on some kind of advice.

Have a wonderful weekend....maybe phone call free?!!!

Amanda