Oh, my..... I was prompted to call a former neighbor who had lost his wife.... I asked how he was doing.... It was one if the saddest conversations.... He said no one has called him.... I was the only one.... I was shocked because he belonged to a very large church and taught Sunday school for 7 years.... I should have checked on him sooner..... He said he has quit going to church... I feel grieved. God bless you all here who post.... I would feel so lonesome without this site. You are all a real blessing, and especially John Tng. Linda