In response to http://www.fivedoves.com/letters/apr2011/kristyb425.htm
 

Dear Kristy,
 

I’m so profoundly sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a spouse, much more in the circumstance you mentioned.
 

I have prayed as you requested. I will continue to hold you in my heart and my thoughts, and I will continue to pray, especially for you and your son. You have a very important role now, don’t lose your faith, stay with the Lord and trust Him. He said He would be with us always.
 

I wish you peace and healing as you grieve the loss of your beloved husband.  Please accept my most sincere concern and condolences.

With all good wishes,

Eliane (in Brazil)